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Thursday, September 18, 2008

Happy Anniversary!


I just wanted to let Nate know how much I love him and how glad I am that we have been able to share these two years, and many more to come!! Man life is just beginning still for us. For our anniversary we just spent the night in the holiday inn in St. George, the place we stayed our first night before we went on our honeymoon to Hawaii. It was kinda nastalgic I'm not going to lie. What a great day it was!
Our story is a good one, all those who want to read on, beware it gets kinda mushy and cheesy...haha, and writing this really was for me. We met the first day in the MTC. We both entered the same day and were in the same branch. Once the branch got together to introduce one another, Nate had the distinct impression that he knew me from somewhere. So we talked and figured out that he had probably seen my twin sister, who was good friends and danced with his cousin, and also had several friends in common. But Nate wasn't satisfied there, there was something else. I remember thinking how hot he was, but I was a missionary, so I just shook it off (it took quite a while to shake it off though let me tell you)! Well we had a great time in the MTC, we sang a couple songs together in church, so we got to know each other through our talents. I remember constantly looking for him at gatherings or in the temple sessions or gym time we would play basketball or volleyball together. I couldn't get enough of him, it was funny too because in the MTC, if you have been there(or even if you haven't) you would know how guys are period, some are after girls even if they are on missions, so I got a lot of elders writing notes and talking to me asking if they could write, no joke! But it didn't even phase me, it was easy to say no to those guys. But for some reason I was stuck on Nate, and many of the elders in our branch would tease us about it, and I got so mad at that. I didn't want to have those feelings for him especially because I was a missionary, and I had a guy that I waited for on his mission, and he was waiting for me kinda. But those feelings were inevitable, and I prayed almost everyday of the mission for focus on the most important things.
Well Nate and I finally parted ways, and it was sad to see him go, but so exciting to get to Tokyo! Nate and I kept in touch a bit via letters, and I always looked forward to it. Well I still was writing this other kid, and about two more months of my mission left, and he writes me a dear Jane, sure I was heartbroken, but I got over it quickly because I really started to care for Nate. Well, it gets worse. I come home, and I have a hard time adjusting, and also the kid that dearjaned me got married the week I got home. So it was tough, I started dating a different kid, and I ended up not even writing Nate for three or four months. He told me he was really bummed during that time too! Well, I went to school at BYUHawaii for a semester, which was the best thing I could have done, because I got away from the other kid I was dating and could rethink a lot of things. Well in the back of my mind was Nate the whole time I was home, and now that he was getting home, he was in the front! I transferred schools to be closer to Utah because I knew he'd be there! Well I didn't know exactly when he was getting home, but soon after he did, he called me needing someone to go to the temple with because he was making a trip down from Enterprise his home town, and no one could go. Fate was that I just happened to be free that night, it was the coolest thing ever. I really hadn't been that happy in a long long time, if ever.
We went to the temple like good old times in the MTC, and talked about our missions the whole night. Nate thought I was mad because he was late, (it was funny too because all the workers in the temple were helping me look for him, calling him my husband, I just hoped they didn't say that to him!) But I wasn't mad at all. He wasn't going to ask me out again that night because of it, he was going to wait a few days to call....well then I would have been mad. But fate played its role again, and I asked him to a play the next night. That was a fun night because during the play he ended up holding my hand and putting his arm around me. Gotta love those butterflies in the stomach! I'm pretty sure it was this night that he brought me home and we kissed! He was a fast mover for sure. We hung out pretty much every day that we could until he started school at BYU in the summer. Then we were making a lot of trips back and forth. It was good for us to be apart, we learned a lot of things in the process. Well he had already planned a trip with his family to Japan to see the sights and his old areas, and he asked me to go. Well we already knew we were getting married so I was needing to save my money for the wedding. Nate and I went ring shopping early and we got a great deal on a 5grand ring, so I knew he was going to ask me soon. Well he convinced his parents to pay for my plane ticket, and of course I couldn't accept that! Well somehow Nate convinced me to go too, (of course I was stoked to see my old stomping ground too) and it was obvious that he was going to ask me there right?? Well we get there, of course we're having a great time, it's gorgeous, nastalgic, fun. We get to this rose garden, the biggest one I've ever seen by far, and Nate's dad said that he should have brought the ring here...well of course me being overanalytical, interpret it to mean that he didn't bring the ring to Japan at all. (Come to find out, he just meant the rose garden). Nate thought that his suprise was spoiled, and I thought I wasn't getting proposed to at all in Japan. So i just expected something great when we got home.
We get to tokyo and I show everyone around, what a great time we had. We get to the temple, and it takes Nate forever to get into the session and I was so worried that he wasn't going to make it at all! They stall the session for a bit waiting for him, and he finally shows up! whew. glad he made it. Well in the celestial room I started telling him all the cool experiences I had in the temple, because I served in the area and was able to go quite regularly. I received a lot of revelation there and it was a special place. Afterward he started telling me his experience in the MTC when he first met me. I had been wondering what he thought the whole time we were dating, and he still didn't tell me. And now all of a sudden he was telling me his experience...I was excited but still confused because I thought he didn't bring the ring. He said that he had prayed about me in the MTC because he just couldn't get me out of his head. He prayed for focus, and got the answer that he would marry me if he was faithful and diligent on his mission. Talk about a revelation at the wrong time. What could he do with it then?? absolutely nothing, except be more diligent than he was. So when I didn't write him for a while, he was questioning that answer. But then he also knew that Heavenly Father would bless him no matter what, even if I used my free agency and chose someone else. But it turned out to be what Heavenly Father intended anyway didn't it?? I was so amazed at the story, and so glad to have heard it, it reassured me that I knew I wanted to marry him (but of course if he told me any earlier, then I would have been scared, so I'm glad he waited until then). I was so glad he told me, I was good right there to go, but then he gets on his knee...and pulls out the ring!! AHH! I was so so so suprised! Maybe it was trick his dad and him were playing on me, well it worked! Then he asked me to marry him, and I said yes of course! No one was in the celestial room except one of the temple workers, and after she saw, she ran down and told all the other workers. All of them congratulated us on our way down. I knew most of them from the ward I served in so it was fun. Jenny, Nate's sister got some pictures developed and put them in frames during the session, and got flowers for me when I came out. It was a fabulous day. I was and am soo happy.
We continued dating and planning the wedding for two more months and finally were able to be sealed in the St. George temple on Sept 16, 2006. We went on our honeymoon to Hawaii and have lived two years together in various parts of the US for school and work, and now back in St. George with our baby boy Jaxson. What a great way to start our wonderful family, and I will love Nate forever and ever. Thank you Nate for all you have done for me! I love you!!

7 comments:

dave&abby johnson family said...

What a cute story!! I love the way he proposed I think that is so awesome, Happy Anniversary you little love birds!

Brinda said...

It's fun to hear your whole story, I've heard bits and pieces, but not all of it. What a sweet couple you guys are, happy 2nd anniversary!

Southern Belle said...

That is so cool he proposed in the temple!! That is the best place ever! You guys are so cute together!!

Unknown said...

Way too mooshy for me! No, i'm kidding. Thanks for sharing. There's a lot of info I had never heard before so it was fun to read! But the truth comes out. I heard some things different from Nate. Funny!

The Weston's said...

so fun to read since i didn't know ANY of it! ! so neat that you got engaged in the temple. how many can say that? what a great foundation you had already built- and personally- i like all that mushy stuff :) Isn't it totally interesting how our spouses come into our lives? Who knows where i would be right now- no where good- i know that much.

KayDee said...

Ya time fly's so fast! Congrats on your anniversary. Are you excited for v-ball??

Angela said...

I didn't know Nathan married a twin! Now you know what you'll have next time you get pregnant...both! What are the odds that somebody with so many twins in his family picks a twin to marry. LOL